SoMeTHiNG aBouT ReLaTioNSHiP

Relationships-of all kinds- are like sand held in your hand. Held loosely, with an open hand, the sand remains where it is. The minute you close your hand and squeeze tightly to hold on, the sand trickles through your fingers. You may hold onto some of it, but most will be spilled. A relationship is like that. Held loosely, with respect and freedom for the other person, it is likely to remain intact. But hold too tightly, too possessively, and the relationship slips away and is lost.

~Anonymous~

Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they're trying to find someone who's going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.

~Anthony Robbins~

Don't settle for a relationship that won't let you be yourself

~Oprah Winfrey~

The relationship between commitment and doubt is by no means an antagonistic one. Commitment healthiest when it's not without doubt but in spite of doubt.

~Dr. Rollo May~

"I've learned in my lifetime so far that you can't help who you fall for and no matter how hard you try and how much it hurts you everyday that you just wanna be with them or just talk to them you never stop trying to make them happy by the little things you say or do because thats what makes your life worth going on for"

ReLaTioNSHiP

Someone had put this quote on his profile...

Be A BuTTeRFLY

DoNT GiVe uP!

“Dont GiVe UP iF U StIll WaNna TrY*

DonT WIpE YOUR TeARS IF YOU StiLL WANT TO Cry

DON'T SETTLE FOR AN ANSWER IF YOU StiLL WanT TO KnOW

AnD DONT SAY YOU DONT LIKE Him IF YOU WOn't LeT Him gO”


“Things don't go wrong and break your heart so you can become bitter and give up. They happen to break you down and build you up so you can be all that you were intended to be.”

“When you want it the most, there's no easy way out.When you're ready to go,and your heart's left in doubt. Don't give up on your faith, love comes to those who believe it...And that's the way it is.”

“Never cease loving a person, and never give up hope for him, for even the prodigal son who had fallen most low, could still be saved; the bitterest enemy and also he who was your friend could again be your friend; love that has grown cold can kindle”

“Don't ever give up on something or someone that you can't go a full day without thinking about.”


“Be Silent yourself, that will induce Silence in others. Do not fall into the habit of shouting, talking long and loud. Reduce contacts to the minimum.Carry with you an atmosphere of quiet contemplation, wherever you happen to be. The less you talk, the more will become your mental power. With the increase in your mental capacity, there will be increase in your power of discrimination too. Consequently, you will give up individual discrimination . Because of this, you will begin to consider the good of the world at large rather than your own individual welfare. You must cultivate such broad feelings from this young age itself.”

You ReMiND Me oF........

You remind me of a flower,
Pretty, inside and outside.
A reason why people smile everyday,
A gift to all.

You remind me of a teddy,
Cute and huggable.
Someone people feel comfortable with,
Special to all.


You remind me of chocolate,
Luscious and sweet.
Someone people can turn to in crisis,
Loved by all.






You remind me of a balloon,
Happy and bouncy.
Someone people can have fun with,
Enjoyed by all.

You remind me of a lot of things,
But nothing can compare to the real person,
A friend I can look up to,
Cherished by me.

- Jenny Yu -

SoMeBoDY iS......

Right now...
Somebody is thinking of you.
Somebody is caring about you.
Somebody wants to be with you.
Somebody hopes you aren't in trouble.
Somebody wants to hold your hand.
Somebody is praying for you.
Somebody hopes everything turns out alright.
Somebody wants you to be happy.
Somebody wants you to find him/her.
Somebody IS him/her.
Somebody wants to give you a gift.
Somebody hopes you're not too cold, and not too hot.
Somebody wants to hug you.
Somebody loves you.
Somebody is thinking of you and smiling.
Somebody wants to be your shoulder to cry on.
Somebody wants to go out with you and have a lot of fun.
Somebody wants you to believe in yourself and know they believe in you.
Somebody wants you to know you are always in his/her heart.
Somebody wants you to know that you are a part of him-her...no matter how near or close you may be...
Somebody is playing a song that you love.
Somebody is helping you without your knowledge.
Somebody is your friend.
Somebody misses you more than you know.

~ I WANNA KISS ~

I WANNA KISS THE MIRROR BEFORE IT BLURRED

I WANNA KISS THE LOVE THOUGH ABSURD

I WANNA KISS THE HEARTBEAT BEFORE IT REST

I WANNA KISS THE BEAUTY AT IT BEST



HERE I AM

KISS ME WHILE I AM AROUND

KISS ME WHILE I AM ABOUND

KISS ME WHILE I AM STILL SOUND



I WANNA KISS THE WATER WHILE IT'S PURE

I WANNA KISS THE WAVES BEFORE THE SHORE

I WANNA KISS THE FIRE BEFORE IT BURN

I WANNA KISS THE SILENT BEFORE IT'S FROZEN



HERE I AM

HOW CAN THE BODY SPEAK

IF THE HEART DON'T SEEK

KISS ME WHILE I AM STILL SANE

O DELIVER US WHEN YOUR MERCY IS AROUSED AGAIN



I WANNA KISS THE IMPULSE BEFORE THE ACTION

I WANNA KISS THE HAND WHICH HOLD THE LANTERN

I WANNA KISS THE FAITHFUL BEFORE FORSAKEN

I WANNA KISS THE INNOCENT BEFORE CORRUPTION



HERE I AM

DON'T TURN YOUR BACK ON ME

FOR MY FAULTY SUPERFICIAL FLIGHT

KISS ME O SPIRITUAL LIGHT

WITH ALL YOUR MIGHT

TILL DEATH

MY BODY APART

SO WILL MY GRAVE

SHINE BRIGHT ALIGHT

::LoVe QuoTeS::

1) Don't turn your back to love when it's
already in front of you. Don't drive it away from you,
because
if you do, someday, you'll think again, why you let love flew when
it was there next to you.

2) In Love, think things first over if
you're sure about how you feel. Don't fall too hard not knowing
where you will stand, 'coz it
will hurt real bad
if things don't go the way you want them to be.

3) It's an irony to know that it takes hours for someone to have guts to say "hi" to
the one she likes, days to admire ,weeks to miss the person,
months to love, but just a blink of an eye to say
goodbye...

4) Go for the person who loves you.
It is not wrong to love someone who belongs to someone else,
but it is much better to love someone who could
also love you in return.

5) Love isn't something we hold, it is something we
set free. It's not something we just do,
but it's something we don't imagine to be.
Lastly, it's not something we choose, it chooses us...

6) The scariest thing about falling in love is getting hurt.
The scariest thing about getting
hurt is not being able to love again.
The scariest thing about not loving again is being alone forever.



7) When you follow your heart, worry not where it
will lead you, for your heart knows the way. And if
you do get lost or reach a dead end, use your
head to lead you back home.


8) When you truly care for someone, you don't
look for faults, you don't look for answers, you
don't look for mistakes. Instead, you fight for the
mistakes, you accept the faults, and you overlook
excuses.

9) It's better to lose your pride to the one you love,
than lose your loved one to your useless pride.

10) Love is .........
not "it's your fault ", but " i'm sorry ",
not " where are you ? ", but " i'm here ",
not "how could you ?", but" i understand,
not "i wish you were here ", but " i'm thankful you
are ".

11) The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves,
and not twist with our own image.
Otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.

12) If a relationship is truly meant for you,
your love will find a way to make it happen, and God will be
there to make sure it will stay .